Tuesday, March 12, 2013

What is your definition of beauty??

The question was asked to me, "What is beauty?" . The concept of Beauty has changed a lot for me through the years. Beauty isn't just the "eye candy" on my side. And It isn't the "fake and bake" nails, hair, brands... It isn't the diva or a stud on glossy cover of a magazine.. it isn't finest of the resorts at finest of the exotic places...It isn't the fancy must have condo.... It isn't the most expensive gadgets you play with, the whole day...

Beauty to me is...
A power dressed man kneeling down on a dusty trail to pacify a baby...
A friend with a pout just to make me smile..
A dream which makes me smile even whilst asleep..
Someone's genuine heartfelt smile.. 
 My father hugging me for no reason...
Father-daughter dance on a stupid ever track and at weirdest ever place.. 
Mother and son dancing with sweetest broadest grin....
Me dancing and jumping with glee like an infant..
Unconditional love....
Giving selflessly without any expectation of something in return..
Friends sitting on a bench oblivion of ice cream smears on their faces..
An online blink with a message you've been waiting for ...
Nature all around me .. those rain kissed trees
My pictures with my mom..
Few saved conversations.... few archives..
Hearing a song that moves me to tears reminding me of memories of mom, friend and few more..
Having family and friends their for me....
Parents sacrificing their important meetings for their child...
Unspoken feelings felt by your best friend and being emitted through their eyes...
Being pacified by people I love when I go angry....
Unspoken words and knowing what is being said...
Unexpressed feelings heard felt and reciprocated...
A hand held out even before i stumble..
Standing up for what I believe in..
Giving .. surrendering my self to people I confide in..
Listening and believing when someone says in earnest ever tone.."you are a beautiful person"
Gift of love and acceptance...
And walking with a contented smile even when pain beyond my endurance hits me.....
Beauty for me is... When I smile through my heart and soul!!!
I am on a constant search for these things...half achieved.. half midway... half yet to find!!!
 These are the things that hold beauty for me...
What's your definition of beautiful??

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27 comments:

  1. deepak mahawarMarch 12, 2013 at 1:51 AM

    This is a true definition of beauty! A beautiful heart like you can only express the proper definition of beauty, beauty can only b feel but u express it, hats off for u minisha

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    1. MinishaMarch 13, 2013 at 4:09 AM

      Thanks Deepak....
      thanks for boosting my moral....

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    2. ANOOP BAHLMay 10, 2013 at 2:08 AM

      Every word you wrote is nice. Brought instant smile to my face as read every line. Proud that we were together in school. Still remember you self made instant stories in school during free time. Keeping poring your heart.

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  2. AnonymousMarch 12, 2013 at 2:06 AM

    Amazingggg!!!!
    Yes that is the true beauty...
    the beauty that we ignore as we are dazed by this fake artificial world..
    thanks for reconnecting us with the true beauty....
    its a pleasure to read your blogs
    keep up the good work Minisha...

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  3. AmolMarch 12, 2013 at 2:09 AM

    Hats off to you............
    what a amazing definition of beauty. U have define happiness and beauty together.. beauty lies in eyes of beholder.. everyone has own definition and u have describe them for alllllll
    Great work.....
    GOD BLESS your work...

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    1. MinishaMarch 13, 2013 at 4:10 AM

      Thanks...
      these comments are like breathers to me......

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  4. Amol GaurMarch 12, 2013 at 2:30 AM

    Beautiful thoughts.. beautiful heart and beautiful person....
    I have no other words to describe this article...
    honestly I've met quite less of females who commands so much of a respect...
    perfect!!!

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  5. TasneemMarch 12, 2013 at 2:33 AM

    Hey!!!
    Awesome .... Amol is so right... You really have grown into a fab writer Yaar..
    every creation is a gem....
    it's my loss to be joining so late..
    love you mini

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  6. AnonymousMarch 12, 2013 at 2:34 AM

    Wowwwwww!!!!!!!!

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  7. JanakMarch 12, 2013 at 2:47 AM

    Yes..
    Mr gaur...
    mini writes amazingly well...
    we didn't know this phase of hers in Dubai.
    Right?
    Super super like.....

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  8. UnknownMarch 12, 2013 at 2:48 AM

    U r great..every time.u write awsum

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  9. AnonymousMarch 13, 2013 at 2:21 AM

    Incredibly written
    yes that is real beauty
    Wowww is the word

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  10. Vipin ChoudhryMarch 13, 2013 at 4:05 AM

    Fantastic description of beauty mini...It is your beautiful thought that makes it more beautiful for us to think what actual beauty is in this synthetic world full of artificial and fake beauty....Thanx for sharing your thoughts...

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  11. MinishaMarch 13, 2013 at 4:07 AM

    Thanks Vips....
    appreciate a lot.....

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  12. AnonymousMarch 13, 2013 at 8:38 AM

    hi mini dis is charu .wanna tel u dat u r n amzng persn. Hats off to u baby .becoz of u i got to d real meaning oe beauty in words .truly n vry wel said.love u .

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  13. manishMarch 13, 2013 at 10:10 PM

    “You do not have to be good.
    You do not have to walk on your knees
    for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
    You only have to let the soft animal of your body
    love what it loves.
    Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
    Meanwhile the world goes on.
    Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
    are moving across the landscapes,
    over the prairies and the deep trees,
    the mountains and the rivers.
    Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
    are heading home again.
    Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
    the world offers itself to your imagination,
    call to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting –
    over and over announcing your place
    in the family of things.”
    ― Mary Oliver
    i can only take this oppurtunity to dedicate these words of a grt writer mary oliver to a yet again a vivid writer.the necklace which u have made out of the words is amazing . lot have been said on beauty but the way u brought out the actual sense of beauty is what needs to be emphasized more.i m honoured to read these soothing words.keep writing, keep enlightening the people like us who in the garb of chasing the unknown have forgotten even the basics.tc

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  14. UnknownMarch 14, 2013 at 5:08 AM

    Wowwwwwwww :)))
    Wonderful <3

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  15. AnonymousMarch 17, 2013 at 12:23 PM

    Beauty is in those rare moments, those gestures, those never fading memories!!!!

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  16. UnknownMarch 31, 2013 at 10:16 PM

    Reading this is beauty.
    Writing this is beauty.
    Let me tell you one thing. I have been following your blogs since you started writing. Almost more than 2 yrs and every time, every time you have come up with something spectacular...This is the BEST....
    Keep it up...:)

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  17. UnknownApril 22, 2013 at 1:38 AM

    Beautifully written...thats wat true beauty is. ..unspoken feelings. .unspoken words...unexpressed feelings...and a hand thats there before one falls..
    Reading it suddenly made the atmosphere so quiet..so pristine so full of beauty...

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  18. UnknownJune 7, 2013 at 6:58 AM

    Wow...amazing !! So beautifully written.

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  19. UnknownJune 7, 2013 at 7:09 AM

    My definition of beauty would be...anything that pleases the mind, and brings happiness to the soul.

    It does not always have to be anything perfect...in fact, it is incompleteness that adds to beauty.

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  20. ...fire cubeJuly 4, 2013 at 12:33 PM

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